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When dating, single people often deploy ro like these to avoid coming off as clingy or desperate. Playing hard to get, the theory goes, makes you seem far more attractive. It might make you feel sly, but does that carefree attitude actually work to anyone's benefit?

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A really beautiful woman has probably developed a very high level of confidence. He waits too long to set up the next date.

16 guys on what they really think when women "play hard to get"

Afterwards, the men answered questions about the date. But when she was disinterested, the men who chose to go on ddo date—which aled that they were more invested—were more likely to want to go on a second date with her, their research found. The more you chase, the less attractive it makes you appear. That's the woman's role.

Playing hard to get: a tried and true method for attraction

Playing hard to get, or preserving your value gard a relationship is essential to keeping the spark alive. And I never heard a man play hard to get. It definitely is, and it works on some men. We're equals or I'll find someone else. Not interested in that relationship dynamic. It might make you feel sly, but does that carefree attitude actually work to anyone's benefit?

If you like them and they like you, date. Guys aren't stupid.

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While it wasn't surprising that women were more drawn to men who xo them attractive, they were most attracted to the men whose feelings were unknown. When it comes to getting a girl attracted to you, playing hard to get is one of the most valuable tools you can employ.

If they don't initiate at least 40 percent of the time roughjust about equal with some elbow roomI assume they aren't interested and move on. There is nothing more frustrating in the world of dating than a guy who seems really interested, but then also maybe not…but then yes…but no again. Whether it works or not is a totally different question, because while some people might love the thrill of the chase, others just value honesty.

I like it. Makes people come at you harder. One of the many things I love about men is their direct communication style and action orientation.

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If you want me and I want you, let's cut the bullshit. Because when you like someone, you think about them a lot, and when you think about them, you want to reach out to them. I want to be myself.

Each woman was told she was looking at men who either liked her a lot, thought she was average, or whose feelings about her were unknown. Playing hard to get, the theory goes, makes you seem far more attractive.

Men reveal the honest truth about whether they like playing hard to get while dating

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In lots of relationships. The men liked the woman more when she was enthusiastic—no shocker there.

Some of the healthiest relationships are the ones in which two people could easily sleep with other people, but actively choose not to. A really beautiful woman would rather a guy be hard to get.

But that doesn't mean I'm not interested in you. Sometimes you have to be your own person with your own plan and schedule, and let them in on it, rather than make them the entire focus of your life.

Playing hard to get is effective, according to psych researchers

The theory states that you'll be more attracted to someone who initially didn't like you but whose affection you won, compared to someone who liked you right off the bat. Huge time saver. If a dude is playing games then chances are he does really well with women, because desperate guys generally view most game-playing as risky.

I'm extremely busy during the week so it can take me hours to respond to texts at times, sometimes I just don't feel like going on a date so I'll cancel and chill with friends, etc. Now if I am talking to a girl I'm interested in and I ask 'where do you work, what are your hobbies, goals, favorite beers, stories?

Let's hsrd know if they really want you. Most dudes don't play any games, because they don't want girls to play games with them.

It sounds selfish, but men and women both look at dating in terms of resource extraction.