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A few years ago, a friend pushed me up against a wall while she was blackout drunk and stuck her tongue down my throat. The moment I realized it was kjow more than deep admiration for his personality was when I tried to sexually fantasize about him. You could be talking to some hot babe at a bar for half an hour, but totally unsure whether they're straight and just being friendly, or actually want to attrcted into your pants.

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And if so, respect her decision and try your best to move on. When all is said and done, you could have the best attractes of your life, really great sex, or you could open up a part of yourself you never knew existed.

I see you, crushing on your lesbian friend. We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this article.

6 things straight girls with a lesbian crush need to know

You just might not be her type. Additional reporting by Elite Daily Staff. If she has a girlfriendrespect that and move on. Cosmopolitan UK spoke to psychosexual and relationships therapistand trauma therapist Carolyn Cowan about how to tell if someone fancies you.

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Before you go any further, make sure she's single. But if you're someone who's attracted to women and queer people, it can feel even more confusing.

And like with any crush on any gender, you might have to accept they just don't have the hots for you. We all know this.

If you're just experimenting, make sure she knows that and is OK with that. If you've dutifully thought about all the things on this list, and you're still teeming with desire for your lesbian crush, ask yourself this: Are you prepared to lose the friendship? Crushing on a woman can be amazing, and sexuality is fluid, so it's pretty common for anyone — no matter where they fall on the sexuality spectrum — to feel attraction toward someone of the same gender.

Be as lesbuan with yourself as you can, and try not to put too much pressure on yourself. When you confess having feelings for a friendthings can get weird — no matter their gender.

Carolyn explains there are some pretty obvious s to look out for. I pushed her away and said, "Girl, what are you doing? Before attraacted your crush you like her, try to understand your own attraction to her. They're smiling If they're "meeting your smile and smiling when you smile," they might be into you, Carolyn says.

Here's how to tell if another woman fancies you

Are you about to fuck up knod make a huge mistake? Jan 7, Flirting is an anxiety-inducing minefield. I can't tell you how many times straight girls have told me they have a crush on their lesbian co-worker.

Otherwise, you might risk ruining your friendship, or worse, really hurting your friend. There may also be accidental touches, like your knees touching under the table.

That's attraction. Oh my god I fantasised about the fact she might have made that playlist especially for me, and it kept me going for years.

This is when I had a huge realization: Some not all straight girls think all lesbians are most definitely attracted to them. I know it sounds simple, but I've seen it happen too many times with my own two jaded, lesbian eyes! Like going from leaning to being open, or whispering, for example.

Getty Images You feel an erotic thrill Carolyn says if there's a mutual sense of attraction, you're likely to feel an "erotic charge". And while I don't advocate lesbixn holding feelings in, you do have to know what you could possibly lose by being honest. Does she have a girlfriend?

And women play lots of different roles. Because fuck I want them'.

They're leaning in "Attraction is a very large amount to do with body language, closeness and leaning in," she explains. They might feel awkward around you and choose not to be your friend anymore.

Some people will show their attraction by being 'chivalrous' and letting the other person go first, but different queer women and people will play out different roles. Experts cited Ruth Schwartz, Ph. I hope I get to see you again soon'. Others are neutral about it, and still others will run. Getting your heart crushed by ho straight girl is a brutal sting that leaves scars.

There may be something you can sub read into that. You feel an inexplicable desire to touch them, or maybe even fantasize about kissing them. The line between admiration and lust is pretty thin.