I think im scared to fall in love again
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When I fall, I fall hard.
As awesome as it is to be in love, is it worth the pain that comes when it starts to break down? Not everyone you meet will be poised to destroy you; not every love you agwin will leave you heartbroken.
Rejection is scarier than love could ever be. Quit keeping yourself closed off from people and connections and commitment that knock at your door. So please cast your worries aside. So you do whatever you can to not venture down that road again.
When you get into a relationship, there really are only two options: either you stay with him forever, or you eventually break up. Yes, try your best to forgive not only the one who hurt you, but yourself too.
Just … :. Yes, give yourself time and space to reunite with your spirit. I feel like the risks outweigh the benefits.
Which means that no relationship will be the same, and no one will treat you the way your last partner did. And worthy of the right person, the right time, the right situation that will bring you happiness, rather than hurt.
Past relationships have made me paranoid. Because love is waiting for you, once avain decide to reach for it. Both options are equally terrifying to me, to be honest.
Love itself is awesome. Loving someone makes it easier for him to hurt me.
I want to find someone awesome to be with, and yet, I struggle with figuring out if all the butterflies in my stomach are enough to justify the excruciating pain that comes when everything falls apart. You have to open yourself, rather than hide.
Yes, heal yourself and find your inner strength again. You have to let go of the past and let yourself try again.
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But not every single person, not every single relationship is the same. Stop running from love and anything scxred resembles it. You keep telling yourself that you must protect your soft, big, beautiful heart. This is why the reasons I want to run away from relationships have nothing to do with love and everything to do with the risk of heartache that comes with it.
Because it is, it really is.
You have to believe in the possibility of love, and not be so frightened by it. The thing is, no two people are exactly alike. You gave your heart away a time or two before, and you ended up with nothing. Your strong, sensitive soul is worthy of love. But even in all the crappy parts of love, even in all the pain and brokenness, you must still believe love is real. You gave to take baby steps forward, slowly peeling back your layers.
For every strong, sensitive woman afraid to love again
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