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But to live with a soul mate forever? Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you and then leave. Gilbert got it wrong. Many people show up in your life to teach you and guide you to grow, relationsnips a soulmate is the one who sticks around for a lifetime through the good and bad times.

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To conclude You are not alone. You may both get resentful or passive-aggressive, resulting in an unhealthy relationship dynamic. It may not be easy for you to find someone who is both romantically and intellectually compatible. The commencement of this union usually occurs unexpectedly, suddenly, magically and passionately: one night, everything is boring, the same, the usual, etc. This applies to social situations and in groups, but also your intimate relationship.

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Perhaps you were trapped in some unhealthy family dynamics that afflicts empathic and sensitive children— such as being parentified, scapegoated or attacked. As a result, you continue to feel like a lone wolf intenss the world. Be curious. And however difficult life may seem, there is always something you can do and succeed at.

You are empathic, self- aware, and have a deep capacity to love and care. While your soulmate can feel like a part of you, your soulmate is a separate human being with different beliefs, inhense, strategies, and emotions than you.

Without healthy emotional boundaries, you may get burned out. Most likely to be spotted at: Out to dinner, having nothing to say to each other Disagreements often arise over: Extremely trivial situations that involve blaming, bickering and bitterness Relationship most likely to end when: One of them dies 1.

Why are soulmate relationships so intense?

Ultimately, you can only do so much work on gelationships own. You are not only sensitive but also enthusiastic, excitable and multi-passionate. Counselling Directory is not responsible for the articles published by members. If you are emotionally intense and sensitive, here are some obstacles you may face in intimate relationships or the lack of them.

If you blame yourself for what had happened, you also carry toxic shame and have low self-esteem. High levels of chemistry with major relationshpis is bad news.

You might be on multiple projects at the same time— either actual physical projects or imaginary ones. You run your life on auto-pilot, make sure that you relatonships your daily tasks, show up to work and fulfil your responsibilities.

imtense Deep down, however, you feel empty and dead. This le to an unsatisfactory life and burn out, and resentment inevitably bottles up. Compatibility is the natural alignment of lifestyle choices and values of two people. Relationships that remain on a superficial level are unlikely to last very long. As a truth seeker, this may frustrate you.

Compatibility vs chemistry

With self-awareness comes understanding and compassion for yourself. Being intense and sensitive, however, means you are more likely to face the following challenges. In a relationship, the person who is more emotionally developed and have a bigger capacity to feel things would take on the feelings the other person disown or could not admit in themselves.

Your soulmate is the one who will love you for who you are, warts and all. In our fast-moving world, these virtues are not easy to come by.

If you then internalise the blame, you start to edit and restrict yourself. Related Posts. And then there you are wherever you go, as they sayand you find yourself jobless with two one-way tickets to Bermuda that were never used, six stitches, slashed car tires, and a shattered cell phone. Even those habitual critical thoughts in your head.

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Who relationship for you? If your partner is not as rigorous, curious, or excitable as you are, you will be under-stimulated and feel trapped. A youth minister and a drug dealer are probably incompatible and I doubt many end up dating each other.

Your soulmate will challenge you to grow as an individual and also to learn new relationship skills. While you might enjoy them in the beginning, you eventually find these demand to conflict with your desire to be alone. This symbol of Love becomes Enough, and what is valued, and so it becomes their trophy for living a normal and successful life, which is perhaps one of the most important ideals one in this type of relationship can achieve. Even if they try to help and be with you, they feel like they hit an invisible wall.

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Disagreements and conflicts are part of life — the sooner you become more comfortable with this fact the happier you will be. Your partner may not be able to understand your sensitivities and needs Many emotionally sensitive people also have physical sensitivities - they get jumpy with loud noises, dislike too many sensory inputs, get allergies, migraines, and fatigue easily. You may try to negotiate with your but they may not be able to understand your need.

Often, the love that once existed in the Never Ending Relationship is replaced by a relationship of Love. Your intense critic is no match for the love of a soulmate.

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But to live with a soul mate forever? The Intense Relationship is excellent and crazy, and those in them are known to neglect everything — work, school, personal relationships — in favor of complete immersion in the world of their love.

Your heart says yes, but your head says no. However, they face specific challenges due to their sensitivity.

Compatibility and chemistry in relationships

Soulmates choose each other and choose to stick with each other. Rather than seeing it as your enemy, be kind and tender towards your need to close up. There will be fights with your soulmate.